Reflections of a Good Woman

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5 Ways to Trust Love Again!


How many of us have been a good woman to the wrong man?  As good women, we can all agree that sometimes who we want to be with, is not always who God chose for us to be with.  But don’t allow one bad apple to spoil the whole bunch, you have to allow yourself to love again.  Being in love doesn’t hurt, loving the wrong person does.  Here’s 5 ways to trust love again after a bad break-up.  

-Don’t Blame Yourself.

It takes two to make a relationship work.  In order to move on, you have to believe that it was not your fault.  We meet people for a reason, season, or a lifetime.  It just happens that his season was over.

-Learn from Your Mistakes.

Every relationship teaches us something new about ourselves.  The red flags were probably there, you just chose to ignore them.  Going forward, always pray first, and let God led you.  It’s okay to follow your heart, but take your brain with you!

-Find Yourself Again.

Many times we put so much energy into our relationships, we end up losing ourselves in the process.  Take this time to enjoy yourself again.  Find out what makes you happy, and do more of that.

-Start Dating Again.

After you start feeling refreshed again, it’s time to get back out there in the dating world.  Date on your terms only.  Take things slow, and just enjoy being single and in control!

-Don’t Compare Your Next With Your Ex.

In a new relationship, we tend to put our guards up to avoid getting hurt again.  Although it’s completely natural, you have to be mindful that your new love is not responsible for what happened in your previous relationship.  To avoid pushing them away, it’s very important that you’re  completely healed before moving on to someone new.  Don’t let your ex ruin your relationship with your next!

I hope that you find these tips to be helpful on your journey.  Please comment any tips or feedback you would like to add below.

❤ Ms. Kyla



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    November 6, 2016

    That’s so true. I feel that I don’t want to date are get married again the one I loved for 12 years has hurt me in so many ways I don’t think I will ever love know one else. My focus is God and my children. I just need to learn how to heal all my wombs. Your messages are hitting every spot.

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      November 6, 2016

      Thank you Jaquia! Yes, I have been there as well, and I think it’s good that you are allowing yourself to heal before moving on!

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